The Circle of Life: Caring for Our Seniors
There’s a beautiful symmetry to life, a circle that begins with our parents nurturing us from infancy, guiding us through childhood, and helping us find our way as adults. Then, as life continues its course, the roles start to shift. The people who once took care of us now need us to care for them. It’s a responsibility we inherit with love, and it’s one I’ve been reflecting on deeply today.
My brother, sister and I had no doubt in our minds when that time came for our dad after our mom passed away two years ago. Losing her was a devastating blow, and not a day goes by that we don’t miss her presence in our lives. But today, as I talked to my dad, I was reminded again of just how much he misses her, especially now that he’s facing a new challenge—he starts radiation therapy for prostate cancer tomorrow.
My dad is strong, but there was a vulnerability in his voice today that tugged at my heart. He's often mentioned since learning of his condition how he wishes mom could be here for him, to hold his hand through this. And while we can’t replace her, I’m so thankful that my brother, sister, and I can minimize his grief and fear by being there for him during this scary time. It’s our turn to be his strength, just as he and mom were ours.
But what about those who don’t have that support? The thought weighs heavily on me. So many seniors face these challenges alone, without the comfort of family or loved ones by their side. It’s heartbreaking, and as a community, as a society, we have to do better.
Supporting our seniors isn’t just a familial duty; it’s a societal one. Intergenerational living is one way we can help bridge that gap. It’s about more than just sharing a home; it’s about sharing lives, experiences, and love across generations. If you’re interested in learning more, I wrote a blog post on intergenerational living that explores this idea in more detail.
Today, I’m asking all of us to consider the circle of life. Let’s honor it by taking care of those who took care of us. Whether through direct care, community involvement, or simply being there for someone who needs it, we all have a role to play in ensuring our seniors are supported, loved, and never left to face their fears alone.
For my dad, for your loved ones, for every senior who deserves to be treated with dignity and care—let’s make this a priority.
xoxoxo
-The Not So Common Gal